Introduction
Welcome, I’m a sensuous, adventurous bisexual woman. I’m open-minded and friendly, creative and versatile. I’m 35, 5 foot 3 (1.6m), with short fair hair, blue eyes, an English rose complexion and curvy size 10/12 34D/E figure.
The most important thing to say is that I love my job. I feel really privileged to be paid to help people feel good – whether what makes you feel good is pleasure or pain. I relish the diversity of human sexuality, and enjoy spending time with clients whose preferences may be very conventional … or very creative.
Most people who come to see me are gentlemen on their own, but I also welcome women, couples, disabled clients or others with special needs.
Whatever kind of experience you are looking for, I hope you will leave my studio feeling cared for, contented and relaxed, having been able to set aside for a while the pressures and concerns of the everyday.
In BDSM I am dominant, taking control to give you freedom to surrender or to suffer, to be passive or helpless. At the heart of BDSM is intimacy, empathy and connection. Although all aspects of my work bring me pleasure, it often feels that in BDSM, I am working with people at the deepest and most private level.
To decide whether we meet, you need to know about the range of activities I offer and the equipment I possess – this information follows. But more important is the attitude that accompanies the time we spend together. I can be cold, playful, stern, demanding, cruel, matter of fact, contemptuous or affectionate. You may wish to contemplate your fate in silence, or to hear the litany of perversions and indignities as they are inflicted upon you. Sensation may be intensified by continuous touch while you are in my possession, or you may need to focus solely on each stroke of the crop, each squeeze of the nipple clamp in order to endure your ordeal of torment.
BDSM offers us a vast playground in which you can be a toy, a worm licking the sole of my shoe, a virgin, a martyr, a naughty boy (or girl), a groveling slave, a brat or simply yourself. Some clients have a clear idea of what they want to experience, or a fantasy they want to live out. For others, it is much more improvised. However, if a particular activity is important to you, it is always advisable to check this out in advance. Don’t worry – you’re not going to shock or upset me by asking for something. The more I know about what you want, the better time you will have.
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Social
If you’d like a chance to get to know each other before we meet for a more intimate encounter, we can meet for coffee or a meal. Discretion is, of course, assured.
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Sensual
I am happy for our session to include sexual contact, either “in scene” or as an addendum to it: I realise that this is a rarity on the commercial BDSM scene. For me, BDSM is a sexual activity: the reason I do BDSM (in my professional or my private life) is (to be blunt) it’s really fucking hot. (Vanilla sex can be hot too – I’m a both-and kind of woman, not either-or.) Many on the BDSM scene, as in patriarchal heterosexuality, equate the act of penetration with the possession of power, and the act of receiving penetration with giving up power. That is not my experience*.
Of course, for sexual contact of any kind, everything is with protection. I don’t receive anally.
And although I offer sex, it is not compulsory. A commercial encounter offers a place for you to clearly and openly negotiate your needs and desires, in which what you want takes priority. Our session is not a time for me to pursue my own preferences – the focus is on you and what you want. What you want may or may not include orgasm on your part, and which may or may not include sexual contact between us. But I’m quite happy to use your body as an object of sexual gratification if you wish 
If sexual contact is to take place during a session, this must be discussed when we pre-negotiate.
I operate a safeword system for all sessions: red to stop – for any reason: something you thought you’d like that it turns out you don’t, too much sensation, cramp in your calf muscle, or you’re just getting distracted because your nose is really itchy – and pink for “less”.
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I particularly enjoy
- tie and tease, restraint and sensual exploration
- bondage and restraint
- cling film mummification
- sensory deprivation, hoods and blindfolds
- hypnosis and trance
- tickle torture
- discipline, otk spanking, flogging, and corporal punishment
- face slapping, spitting, scratching (my nails are short but sharp)
- biting/pinching/hair pulling
- anal play, dildo or strap on training and fisting
- behaviour modification
- protocol training
- chastity training and orgasm denial
- confinement/caging
- slave training, obedience training, service scenarios, financial slavery
- trampling
- human furniture
- CFNM
- role play
- puppy or kitten play
- adult baby
- foot, leg and body worship
- boot and shoe, stocking and pantie worship
- smothering (breast or bottom), queening and face-sitting
- humiliation, both predicament and verbal
- hot wax, waxing, shaving and hair plucking
- nipple torture, CBT, genitorture and ball busting
- water sports and golden showers (by pre-arrangement only)
An audience can be available to mock or be shocked at your plight– a friend of mine is a student and she and several of her friends are titillated and intrigued by what they know of my work. I can assemble a bevy of giggling girls to add piquancy to your disgrace, or a curious voyeur to comment on your torments.
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Activities I don’t offer
- blood sports, cutting, needle play
- hard sports or brown showers
- elaborate rope bondage
- forced feminisation (although I welcome TV clients)
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Premises & equipment
My premises are equipped with
- toys, vibrators, dildos and buttplugs
- pegs, nipple clamps, cock rings, cords for CBT/cock tying, weights
- paddles, canes, floggers, tawses, straps, riding crops, whips and a hairbrush for an old fashioned spanking!
- ropes, chains, collars, leashes, cuffs, a spreader bar and restraints
- hoods, blindfolds and gags
- an office desk and typewriter
- an old fashioned school desk and a dunce’s stool
- a throne on a dais
- a whipping bench, cage and St Andrews cross
- a massage/medical examination couch
- a cast-iron four poster bed
- costumes and fetish wear in rubber, leather and PVC
- a foot spa
- a range of beautiful shoes, high heels, sandals and boots.
* “Oh, you mean like when an electrical plug penetrates a wall socket?…” Janet Hardy, quoted in The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
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Fantasy role play
The only limits are our imagination. Scenarios can be vanilla-flavoured or BDSM. Classics include
- teacher/student
- boss/subordinate
- nurse/patient
- doctor/patient
- cop/suspect
- aunty/disobedient child/brat
- lady of the manor/servant
- scientist/research subject
- neighbour catching a peeping tom
- inventor/robot/human doll
- French maid
- nun
- puppy training
- shoe salesman/customer
- slave auction
